Parents of Estranged Adult Kids

The Pain of Parental Estrangement

A Common Story

Estrangement from a family member is always difficult for everyone involved, but it is especially painful for parents when the relationship with one or more children has been severed. The trauma is as deep and debilitating as injuries from a car accident, but shame and embarrassment make it difficult to seek help. Yet, estrangement is common. It is estimated that nearly one out of every eight parents is estranged from an adult child. One in every five older adults is considered an “elder orphan” with no one to turn to in a time of need. If you are one of them, please don’t try to go it alone any longer.

Tamara Aemina Razzano

New Parental Trauma Recovery Group 

Join our Parental Trauma Trauma Recovery group led by our new Director of Program Development and trauma specialist, Tamara Aemina Razzano.

Thursdays, April 13 – May 18, 7:00 – 8:15 PM EST
Participants will need a copy of PEAK: A Resource of Recovery.
This is an online group that is supported on a donation basis.
To register click here.

Don’t go through the agony of parental estrangement alone. 

Drop-In Recovery Groups Every Monday
Choose the group that works for you and join us by clicking on the ZOOM button

Group 107

Mondays, 6:00 – 7:15 PM (EST)

Group 108

Mondays, 8:00 – 9:15 PM (EST)

Group 109

Mondays, 4:00 – 5:15 PM (EST)

PEAK Lenten Drop-in Group!

If you would like to join with other parents of estranged adult kids for a Christian morning devotional this Lenten season, consider participating in the PEAK Lenten Group. This group is for those who wish to observe Lent daily in 60-minute sessions each morning to share the Journey: Daily Readings for Lent and Easter with each other. All are welcome! The group will meet via Zoom from 9:00 – 10:00 AM EST, every morning from Ash Wednesday, February 22nd through Easter Monday, April 10th. Purchasing the book is not a requirement, but having a copy will make your participation a richer experience. To join us, click the button below!

To make a donation to the PEAK movement, click on the donate button.

Absalom’s Wounds provides a resource for leaders who want to offer hope and healing for those struggling with this painful issue. Whether you are a pastor, a senior adult leader, a friend of an estranged parent, or living in a cut-off relationship yourself, you will find a Biblical perspective in the pages of this book that is relevant, insightful, and affirming.

This book will share the common experiences among Parents of Estranged Adult Kids (PEAK™), the stages of estrangement, the impact it has on your health and well being, and many other elements of estrangement. It also outlines a journey that promotes healing for your spirit, your body, and your mind.

PEAK provided me an outlet for venting my feelings of separation from my estranged daughter and became a vehicle for transporting me to a new reality where I was able to better take control of my future. The PEAK readings were particularly helpful and the group sharing allowed me the freedom to alleviate much of the pain that I was living with. Thank you for my new outlook.
PEAK member

How May We Help You?

We want to be there for you in ways that fit your need right now.

Join a PEAK group

In a PEAK group, you will discover that many others are dealing with the same issues that break your heart...and want to be there for you as well.

Read a book on your own

Many people are finding the book PEAK: Parents of Estranged Adult Kids a game-changing resource that you can begin reading on your own.

Check out other resources

We have a list of skilled and compassionate therapists who others have found helpful in dealing with their own estrangement issues.

A Father's Dream

“And so I live,
knowing you are there,
somewhere in the world,
a natural wonder,
but no path to find you again.
Even then, the broken is sharp,
and the gentlest touch still cuts.
I dream of a day
when the edges of the glass
are worn down by the waves of time
and the sand of suffering,
that I might find you once more,
and we might sit beside one another,
just two shades of green
watching the setting sun.”